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Welcome to a new featured category of iDoleo.com, Slave Girls. This category is dedicated to the representation and expression of submissives and slaves as depicted in art, the media, and pop culture.

I am kicking off this featured category with one of the most erotic representations of a slave girl found in modern pop culture. As the name gives it away… This post showcases the green Orion Slave Girls from Star Trek. 

I am a huge fan of science fiction and of Star Trek. Hard to believe a serious minded Dom and Sadist is into either? Well… Believe it and enjoy the photo of Vina, the first green Orion Slave Girl depicted in the original Star Trek series.

Enjoy!!

I found myself in what I thought was a friendly chat the other day at the Gor Hub. I was sitting in a comfy chair and observing the goings and comings that is the “Hub” when I began talking with a woman that teleported in next to me. At first, it was the typical 2nd Life getting to know you chat. Then… the discussion took a strange turn.

What was the topic of discussion, you ask? It was about one’s nature as a submissive or a dominant and whether or not modern humans fall into those categories or whether “evolution” has stripped us of the those basic traits for a reality that is less black and white and more grey.

Now, if you have read this blog at all, you know my views already. I am a Dom and a Sadist of many years. That is who I am and who I have been. Being dominant has defined both my personal and professional life. The woman I was talking to was a submissive, or so I thought, and was located in Germany. 

The submissive’s points of view went something like this:

• One’s nature as a submissive or dominant, is not a black and white position.
• If those broad categories were the true nature of things, it would be a boring world.
• There are no broad categories or traits in individuals, but rather people are composed of a mix of many characteristics.
• There is no natural order of things or rather the order of things seen in nature no longer applies to humans.

All of these point are certainly valid given specific contexts. That said, these points are also the usual points that a Switch would give to the justification of their position. This isn’t going to be post on Switches, but I will just say… I do not believe in Switches. Every Switch I have ever met, 1st Life or 2nd Life, prefers either the dominant role or the submissive role and they basically switch because it maximizes their kink and sexual cravings.

After the submissive was finished expressing her views, I countered with mine.

• There is a natural order to life on this planet. It can be seen in nature and in human culture(s), both past and present.
• Like predator and prey, being a dominant or a submissive is a very real broad trait in one’s personality, even if not known or directly expressed or acted on.
• The black and white aspect of being dominant or submissive is that these categories exist and are real.

This is where the conversation passed into the realm of a jaw dropper, what-the-fuck moment for me. This submissive actually started to try and defend the notion that the transfer of natural mechanisms to humans was “useless” since “we humans have hardly nothing to do with nature anymore as evolution did not go by without making it’s mark on us”.

Then the submissive’s point turned a bit more personal when she asked me, “hows about dropping your ego totally? …that would be a way to become natural again?” lmao… It always comes down to the personal attack, doesn’t it? Two people having and honest debate and when one of the people can no longer defend their position, it turns personal. Typical and sad…

The conversation turned one sided at that point with me stating I do not see how anyone that believes humans have evolved in the same closed system as everything else around us is somehow above that process. To me… That thought and point of view is what screams “ego”. 

Humans have not left this closed system. Humans are still apart of it. And… The closed system and the evolution processes that created us still influence and shape us today. This means that those broad categories of traits we see around us, like “prey and predator” and “domination and submission” exist in us and will continue to exist in us. We cannot separate ourselves from the processes that created us. 

This is not a question of black and white vs grey. Like it or hate it, this is a fact of life as it evolved on this planet. These broad categories and traits at their basic level define us. Welcome to planet Earth!! :)

Okay… Okay… I know I have let this blog fall into a terrible state of disrepair. Time to make an effort to mend the damage and get things hopping again.

To be honest, I have not really been in  2nd Life all that much. As I tend to do, I lost my drive and reason for being there. It happens, especially when one has been in 2nd Life as long as I have. Early 2004 seems like several lifetimes ago!!

Over the past year, not much has changed in 2nd Life, in my opinion. I still feel like the “golden age” of 2nd Life and other virtual worlds has come and gone. That said… Other grids and virtual worlds continue to pop up and grow. 

The BDSM and Gorean communities also continue to disappoint. As much as I like to create and build, I must say… The continued lack of quality people inside 2nd Life makes it difficult to be there and participate in any meaningful way. 

With all that said… I did greatly enjoy writing this blog and it is time for me to get off my ass and write again. So, if you see out in the wilds of 2nd Life, feel free to say hello. 

Take care for now and keep checking back. New posts and content are coming!!

I have not blogged since the Summer. That does not mean I have not been in 2nd Life. I have been in-world, but not as often as I used to be. Why?? Well, IMO 2nd Life keeps sinking into the abyss of “why bother”. This is especially true when it comes to being a serious Dom or sub/slave in 2nd Life. 

I know… I know… I am always going on about how most in 2nd Life do not take the D/s or M/s lifestyle seriously and how most are just players at best. I wish I didn’t have to drone on and on about it, but I am just not one to let “players” pretend they are something they are not. I call them as I see them…PERIOD!

That brings me to the subject of this blog post, Mickey Mouse Dominants. The other night (well night for me), I logged to relax and hang at one of my favorite lifestyle hang outs. I ran into a couple of friends, one of which is a sub I have known for a fair amount of time and in fact owned. While talking with her in a private IM, I noticed that she seemed to be involved with a Dom of some note and inquired what that was all about. She informed me that she was his 2nd. 

Upon hearing this news, I gave her a couple of LOLs and LMAOs. I have known her for a couple of years and have known of this Dom for just as long. This was the first time I saw her with him, yet… She made it sound like her 2nd status was not new. I found all of this even more amusing considering the Dom in question historically blows through subs with some regularity. Recently he has owned two subs, one after another in a short amount of time, and still has time for a 2nd.

Why does any of this matter? It matters because some subs/slaves see this Dom (and others like him) as being real because he is a regular in 2nd Life and has a bit of a 2nd Life presence. The fact remains… This Dom is no Dom. He is purely driven by the social and kink aspects of the lifestyle. This is even more evident as this Dom has also claimed to be a Switch in the past.

This is a classic example of what I call a Mickey Mouse Dominant. A 2nd Life player that wants others to think he/she is a serious Dominant yet shows he/she is nothing of the sort by his/her actions. This type of Dominant mostly attracts and seeks subs/slaves with little or no real experience or exposure to the lifestyle, online or offline. It is this aspect of the Mickey Mouse Dominant that is a real crime for those subs/slaves that are real, want to be real, or are seeking real training.

If the above were not enough, the real proof that this Dom is just a player was demonstrated when he was confronted by how others see him (the others in question being me…lol). Instead of asking me why I have this opinion of him and opening a dialog, he used his 2nd Life presence to confront and attack me directly.

How would he know my opinion of him considering I do not publicly discuss such things or use names when I write blog posts?? Well… That is a long story in itself and worthy of a blog post of its own. I will just say, at this point, it involves multiple instances of private log file transfers and clear violations of the Linden Lab’s Terms-of-Service by at least three known parties. As I said at the beginning of this post… IMO 2nd Life keeps sinking into the abyss of “why bother”.

I love reading profiles in 2nd Life. Like many of you, I am a self proclaimed profile whore…lol Reading profiles is a wonderful pass time because you just never know what you will find.

The above is specially true for those in 2nd Life that like to roleplay D/s or M/s relationships and lifestyles. For that group, there is almost always a section in the profile dedicated to roleplay limits. This is commonly seen as a Picks Tab entitled, RP Limits.

I am not into roleplay. This is especially so in 2nd Life. Having said that, I thought it would be fun to compile my own list of real time limits. My RT Limits, if you will. And please people… No need to freak!! This is just some in-world fun and a bit of 2nd Life parody :)

Real Time Limits:

• Keep it real. No roleplay allowed.
• Voice, cam, and real time use required. 
• If captured, ownership is permanent.
• Force collaring is guaranteed.
• No limits on use or treatment.
• If you displease, you will be punished.
• If you continue to displease, instant death.

As you know, if you have read my blog, I have been in 2nd Life since 2004. That is several lifetimes in 1st Life and much has changed since my original avatar first rezzed in-world. People in my 2nd Life have come and gone. Some have had my complete trust and known me in 1st Life… Some have only known me in 2nd Life… This post is dedicated to those people that have been there for me as real friends through out all these years. Trusted friends in 2nd Life are rare and real gifts. Thank you each and everyone. And, as I am fond of saying… All the best to you!!

• Mimi - My sweet pink pet. Over two years in my collar in 1st Life and 2nd Life and many more years to come. You have stood beside me through good times and bad. You are a rare gift and I am proud to call you mine. You are a true slut, whore, and cunt… and all mine!!
• Jaade - My wife in 1st Life. My submissive and pet once upon a time in 1st Life and 2nd Life. The dynamics have changed for us, but you remain there to support me as a Dom in both worlds.
• Pleasure (aka Bails) - A true trusted friend in and out of 2nd Life. A real submissive that knows what it means to be so. We don’t get to chat or see it other like we used to, but we are always there for one another if needed.
• Nikki - Once owned by Jaade and I and then just by me, Nikki is a wonderful slave that gives herself completely under a challenging 1st environment. It was a sad day when I could no longer hold her leash. Thankfully, we remain close friends and it is always a pleasure to hear from her.
• Karly - My little subbie from Down Under. No longer mine, but a dear friend that will always be with me. We were like fire and water together. Still are…lol We never seemed to find our time, although we tried… and tried… and tried.
• Buce - A fellow Dom and the only one I have ever trusted in 2nd Life. He is a man of his word and, although our styles are different, we share many of the same core philosophies.  
• Kate - A trusted friend from the UK. One of the best and most devoted submissives I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.
• Akasha - A relatively new friend, but a trusted one that shares many of the same views as I do on the lifestyle. Here is to a long and continued friendship.
• Mija - A 2nd Life designer and submissive. I greatly enjoy discussing 2nd Life business and the BDSM lifestyle with her. Mija is very talented. I’m proud to call her my friend.
• Wafa - A slave in 1st Life that is in 2nd Life to meet others and share views. More distant than I would like due to 1st Life, Wafa has been a wonder friend and has been there to listen when I needed an ear. She is a dear friend I do not get to chat with as often as I would like.
• Crow - A good friend that I rarely see anymore. We spent many a late night discussing BDSM and Gor and what makes a good submissive, slave, and dominant. I miss our chats.
• Julie - A good friend of mine and my wife. We met in 2nd Life and were together for years afterwards. Hardly ever online anymore and half a world away. The memories of the cow hide skybox linger though…lol

When I started idoleo.com, I knew the day would come when someone would take issue with my web site and my blog postings. That day has come and this person has branded me a cyberstalker. This person has even listed two Wikipedia sources for 1) cyberstalking and 2) stalking. For your reading pleasure, those links are as follows:

• Cyberstalking
• Stalking

All together now and with feeling… LMAO!!

Okay… Reality check time. I have never used anyone’s avatar name or real name in a derogatory fashion. I have never given out detailed 1st or 2nd Life information about anyone. I have never posted Chat or IM conversation logs. I do not follow people around the grid screwing with their 2nd Life. I do not contact people in 1st Life unless they wish me to and have expressly told me that I may do so.

What I do do (I always love saying this…lol) is… Observe and express my opinions in a blog web site that people have to explicitly and deliberately choose to read. Yes, I do have a few places I enjoy hanging out at in 2nd Life. Yes, I express my opinions, some of which may not be popular to certain people or groups of people. Yes, I am more serious about my existence in 2nd Life than most.

This brings me to profiles, interactions and chat in public locations, and photos.

First, profiles… Linden Labs generally considers all information, including text and graphics, in profiles as public. If you do not wish others to have have access to this information, you should not post it in your profile. The exception, of course, is copyrighted or trademarked information that you can show you hold either the copyright or trademark on.

As for reading profiles, that is why they exist. If you do not wish people to read your profile, you should not have one. Keep it blank. If you use your profile to post updates about yourself or your business, or to voice opinions and thoughts, or to vent and rant… Your profile is a 2nd life, in-world blog and, as such, public because you wish to share that information openly.

Second, interactions and chat in public locations… Linden Labs considers all interactions and chat in public locations public. Period. You are responsible for your own conduct and how others perceive you. Any public location in 2nd Life, as well as 2nd Life itself is a social venue and network. If you have issues with the social aspect of 2nd Life or interacting, for better or worse, in public areas, you need to get over it and yourself.

Third, photos… To the best of my knowledge, there are no restrictions on taking or using photos in 2nd Life and certainly not in public locations. Just as in 1st Life, being at a public venue means you implicitly understand that you are being observed and possibly photographed or recorded in some fashion. Displaying photos in your profile makes them public in nature. 

For further information on the above, I will point you to a post I did a few weeks ago. That post is here: Freedom of Speech and 2nd Life.

So… Am I a Blogger or a Cyberstalker? I think the former, rather than the latter. Either way, though, I am responsible for my own words, actions, and conduct in 2nd Life and elsewhere on the Internet and in 1st Life. I know I am not perfect and have stated so on this site and in my 2nd Life profile. I have a clear conscious about idoleo.com along with who and what I am in 1st and 2nd Life. I am, in fact, the same in both places. And… that is a statement most people in 2nd Life cannot make.

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For the background story on this blog post, please see the earlier post here.

…2nd Life idiots and morons. Yes, that’s right, Dune is in 2nd Life and apparently House Atreides and even Maud’Dib himself are here and in the lifestyle. Really??

The photo above had me do a double take on my morning rounds the other day. In the photo is Maud’Dib and three of his slaves in various stages of training: Beginning Slave of Atreides, Slave of Atreides, and Learned Slave of Atreides.

I know 2nd Life is just that for a lot of people. A place to express themselves and explore other realities and possibilities. Having said that, when I see something like Dune in 2nd Life as some quasi Gorean, Sci-Fi, Horror lifestyle roleplay thing, all I can think and say is… Grow the fuck up!!

Don’t get me wrong, I am a huge Sci-Fi fan. I also am a huge fan of the B&D, D&S, and S&M lifestyles. When I see something like this, though, it just makes me sad that some belittle very meaningful and beautiful lifestyles in an attempt to turn them into a bullshit fantasy for their own jollies and kinks. 

In a word… Sad.

I learned, recently, that I was in violation of one of the rules at the Bondage Ranch. Specifically, Rule No. 3 - No Advertising. I was instructed to change and/or remove my group title by a very happy Bondage Ranch Administrator. I, of course, complied but was more than a little confused as I looked around the Bondage Ranch. There, in front of me, was a sea of group titles on display. Some of these titles where purely personal, but many were commercial. Blatantly commercial, in fact.

In my case, my group title was simply :idoleo.com: Yes, I am a designer and terraformer in 2nd Life, but am not really selling anything. If you are here and reading my web site and blog you know it covers many different topics and aspects of my online presence and life in and out 2nd Life. 

When I inquired about the other commercial group titles and if these patrons would be asked to change or remove them? I was told… No and… The discussion is over. I must say, that surprised me a bit. I can only assume the Administrator in question was very busy.

So, in an effort to help the Bondage Ranch, its administrators, and the staff, I thought I would start compiling a list of commercial group titles that clearly break Rule No. 3. by advertising or promoting other sims in 2nd Life, 2nd Life businesses, and patrons’ personal projects. Before I do, though, I would like to clarify what Rule No. 3 is by directly citing it from the a Picks tab in the Administrator’s profile that required me to change my title. It is as follows:

NO ADVERTISING - No taking money. No soliciting. No products. No ads. No hover text or active tags for ads/$/escorting. 1 month ban.

That rule seems pretty clear and I am happy to comply. That said… There does seem to be a lot of patrons at the Bondage Ranch not aware of Rule No. 3. Not surprising since it does not seem to be enforced with any constancy. 

Before I get to the list, though, I would like to say… It seems to me, if preventing advertising is really a priority and an issue at the Bondage Ranch (or any area like the Bondage Ranch), the easiest way to enforce the rule is simple… Require all patrons and guests to 1) belong to a group and 2) wear the group title while visiting. Just food for thought…

Titles that Advertise and Promote at the Bondage Ranch: 

• Otherwordly — Otherworld Creations
• Submission Set Free — Open Collar
• Rubber Room Vip — The Rubber Room
• Naughty School Vip — Naughty School
• Regime Imperia’s — Regime Imperia
• Sky Vista Tenant — Sky Vista Skybox Rentals
• Kinx Konnected — Kinx Konnections
• Master Retreat Girl — Master’s Retreat
• Opium Vip — Opium Nite Club
• XTC LeatherLover — XTC Leather
• Madame of Le Fetiche — Le Fetiche
• Ancaria — Ancaria
• Photographer — Click Photography
• Brussels Palace — Brussels Belgie
• Parisi Member — Parisi Rentals
• Pelle-Terra Games — Pelle-Terra
• Bonanza Bondage Vip — Bonanza at Waterview
• Bonanza Stock — Bonanza or Waterview
• FIN Model & Fashion — FIN Model & Fashion
• Escencia-BDSM — Escencia-BDSM
• S&S ~ Subbi ~ S&S — S&S Island
• Wylie Island VIP — Elke Wylie Island
• CollarMe Junkie — CollarMe in SL
• Redgrave Addict — Redgrave Fashion Group
• Slave World Owner — 1st Slave World
• Two-Way Girl — Two-Way Girls
• P3 Owner — P3 Slave Auctions
• B.d.I LordLand — Bluedreamsisland

I was shocked to learn today that I was in violation of the rules for the Bondage Ranch. Thankfully, a very happy Bondage Ranch Administrator informed me of that violation and showed me the errors of my ways. I stand corrected and now am hopefully in full compliance with the regulations of the Bondage Ranch.

As a result of my violation, I thought this would be a good opportunity to review the posted rules of the Bondage Ranch. Clearly, if I, a patron of the Bondage Ranch for many years, was in violation the rules, others might be as well. This is especially true considering the usual place I stand is by the posted rules. So… Lets review:

1. No Assault. Follow the Linden Lab Terms of Service.
2. Cooperate with the Bondage Ranch Administrators and Police.
3. No Advertising (this is the one I broke).
4. Read Profiles.
5. Be Nice.
6. Remove Rezzed Items When Done.

As I stated above, I was in violation of Rule No. 3 which clearly states there is no advertising at the Bondage Ranch. I had mistakenly thought that one of my :Doleo: group titles listing this web site, idoleo.com, was okay to wear. The Administrator at the Bondage Ranch, however, informed me that was not the case and, in fact, was not acceptable.

When I was informed of my violation, I changed my group title immediately to comply, or tried. Unfortunately, I was slow to do so because I have been testing the new Linden Labs 2.0 Viewer. With some stern motivation and direction from the Administrator, I finally was able to change my title from :idoleo.com: to BR Rules-Broke #3. Once done… Everything was right as rain :)

I know the administrators and staff at the Bondage Ranch must be very busy because I noticed other patrons there with clear advertising violations in their profile titles too. When I pointed that fact out and inquired if these patrons would also be brought into compliance with the rules, I was informed… No, in a word.

With the above in mind, I would like to do my part and help the Bondage Ranch with identifying other profile titles that are in clear violation of their Rule No. 3. I mean… who better to keep a list of non-compliant titles than a person that was mistakenly in violation but is now compliant?

So, in a day or two, I will start a blog post listing profile titles that violate the “No Advertising Policy” of the Bondage Ranch rules. It is my hope, it will be a benefit to both the administrators and staff of the Bondage Ranch, as well as those patrons that might unknowingly be breaking the rules.

The last time I checked, Linden Labs is a private company located in the United States of America. As such, the freedom of speech, as protected by the First Amendment of the United States Constitution, applies. That means… Opinions and views matter, are protected, and people have the right to express them under most circumstances. 

Linden Labs also values the opinions and views of others and have, in part, created 2nd Life so people can express their opinions and views in a 3d virtual social environment that can be experience with and shared by others. In that venue, they have a responsibility to protect their patrons, as well as their patrons personal information.

Linden Labs privacy policies and community standards speak to both the freedom of speech and the protection of patrons and their personal information. The sections presented below detail the current Linden Labs polices. 

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Privacy Policy Page:

Disclosing Personal Information in Profiles, Forums or within Second Life

You may choose to disclose personal information in our online forums, via your Second Life profile, directly to other users in chat or otherwise while using Second Life. Please be aware that such information is public information and you should not expect privacy or confidentiality of this information.

Community Standards:

Disclosure

Residents are entitled to a reasonable level of privacy with regard to their Second Life experience. Sharing personal information about a fellow Resident-including gender, religion, age, marital status, race, sexual preference, and real-world location beyond what is provided by the Resident in the First Life page of their Resident profile is a violation of that Resident’s privacy. Remotely monitoring conversations, posting conversation logs, or sharing conversation logs without consent are all prohibited in Second Life and on the Second Life Forums.

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These policies and standards seem clear. As a citizen of 2nd Life, we are all entitled to our opinions and views. We are further free to express them in a manner that does not directly name or identify specific individuals or groups in a derogatory manner. Personal information is to be protected, but… Linden Labs makes it perfectly clear that any information disclosed openly in your profile or freely given to others publicly or privately is considered public information.

I, for one, believe these policies are fair, yet protect individuals and their personal information. I adhere to these policies and have since my first avatar creation date back in 2004. I protect the personal information of others by not naming them and not detailing that information with specifics that directly identify them. That is not responsible or respectful and is conduct that should be frowned upon openly by others.

The fact remains… Some patrons of 2nd Life will always take issue with the opinions and views that others have. They will only read what they wish to see in a site like idoleo.com and will assume they have been personally wronged and publicly singled out. It is as laughable as it is sad and it speaks volumes to the character (or lack there of) of those individuals, rather than mine.

To those individuals that this post addresses, I say the following… Do not put yourself out there or conduct yourself in a manner you will regret later. Being in a social venue like 2nd Life and interacting with others in that environment makes you, the information you share, the information you display, and your conduct public.

It has come to my attention that a recent submissive I had an interest in and owned briefly thinks my Worthless Cunt Archetype blog post is about her. Nothing could be further from the truth. That post was written based on my firsthand experience and observations in and out of 2nd Life. Both its scope of coverage and subject matter are beyond that of any single individual.

Having said that… It is classic that this submissive thinks my post is about her and feels the need to fill her profile with defamatory comments and views naming me while at the same time discussing her ownership out of context and only conveying one side of the story, her side.

So… Here are the facts, fair and balanced. You decide.

• I showed interest in this submissive and she returned that interest.
• She was in and out of my collar three times since this past January. Each time she was released was due to her actions and behavior not mine.
• I am who I am. I do not pretend to be something I am not. I expect a lot from any submissive that I own.
• This submissive was not truthful with me or upfront about her 1st Life. As we got to know each, it became apparent she is a deeply troubled soul and/or a complete wacko.
• She is either in a very mentally and physically abusive 1st Life relationship and marriage or is completely making up her story to gain reactions and attentions from others.
• Although she can talk the talk, this submissive does not have the capacity to obey or truly please her Owner. She is prone to topping from the bottom and has a well known 2nd Life history of doing so.
• She is driven by her own ego and desires and lets her kinks control her. So much so, she seeks out places to offer herself freely for use. More than that… Apparently a Dom friend and 2nd Life business partner of hers (And… I use the term Dom lightly here) is now pimping her out as a voice whore for $3,500 L per hour. 

As sad and troubling as all the above is, this submissive feels the need to devote a Picks tab about me, spewing all sorts of statements that have no basis in reality. This Picks tab has changed multiple time since it first came to my attention, but here was/is its focus:

• I need to learn how to Dom a “true” submissive.
• I should not waste my time on a silly blog with views not the same as many others.
• I should be more focussed on my family, kids, and my pet, Mimi.
• She has never written anything defamatory nor would defame someone unless she feels they are cruel.
• Beware of Alec Inglis and his blog.

Well, personally… I feel this submissive has some real issues to resolve. Never once did I mention her name, her 2nd Life businesses, or any of her friends. In fact, I have not discussed her at all directly or indirectly in my blog before this post. She cannot make the same claims.

I am not one, however, to let others walk all over me or have people that are clearly clueless pretend to be something they are not. It is because of people like this submissive that many real dominants and submissives get frustrated with the lifestyle and just bail. It is also because of people like this submissive that others are attracted to the lifestyle thinking it is all about sex, kink, fetishes, and use.

So, if you are out and about and happen to read an Alec Picks tab in a profile from a submissive that claims to be a born submissive in both 1st and 2nd Life, you have been warned. If you have an interest in this submissive, beyond her “free” use, approach her with caution and be guarded.

**Update (2010-05-18 8:30 pm SLT): After making a big stink about me and how I am violating the Linden Labs Community Standards—which she quotes and cites—she has now removed my name from the Picks tab…lmao. Like I am worried?? I am not the one that violated the 2nd Life Community Standards. Never have… Never will… But I do log everything, including the four versions of her Picks tab that she has floated out there (both screen shots and text).

**Update (2010-05-19 8:00 pm SLT): Bliss was found today!! Yes, that is right. All is right in the world and in heaven for this submissive. She has found him and he her. They connected instantly (as is often the case in these matters…smiles) and she once again is enjoying her 2nd Life, as well as looking forward to a wonder life with her new Dom and Master. Wow… That sounds more than just a little familiar. And…I am sure not just to me. Such is life, love, and ownership, though, in the virtual reality known as 2nd Life. Best of luck to her!! Here is to hoping a wonderful life lasts longer than a week or two this time around…lol

**Update (2010-06-10 12:00 am SLT): After trying to unsuccessfully engage me in an IM concerning giving her 2nd Life business a free plug in one of my blog posts after weeks of no communication with one another, I noticed this submissive now has a fresh Picks Tab concerning me. This time her approach is to use my profile photo (and a damn fine photo too I might add) and brand me a cyberstalker because of my blog. As laughable as that is, it just goes to show how disturbed this woman is. Disturbed, but at the same time very typical for 2nd Life and the drama that drives people in-world.

**Update (2010-06-11 6:00 pm SLT): Well today marks the end of this submissive’s wonderful life with her new Dom and Master. As predicted… It was a short life, 23 days. Very sad actually, but more than expected. This is what happens when a fantasy does not meet reality and the people involved are not what they claim to be (on either side of the D/s fence). A real shame… 

I have come to realize there is a Worthless Cunt Archetype in the lifestyle and in 2nd Life specifically. What is the you might ask? Well… An archetype is defined as a typical example of a certain person or thing. It is further defined as a recurrent symbol or motif, such as good and evil.

In the case of the Worthless Cunt Archetype… This is a type of submissive or slave that demonstrates, by actions and/or behaviors, that they are not what they claim to be or cannot be what they wish to be. Usually self destructive in nature and driven by their own desires and kinks, the Worthless Cunt Archetype will always put their happiness and pleasure before those of their Owner.

Taking many different forms, the Worthless Cunt Archetype is similar in construct to what the American Mythologist, Joseph Cambpell, put forth in his book, The Hero with a Thousand Faces. In this book, Joseph Cambpell defined and exemplified the common elements of a single Hero Archetype found in myths and legends spanning different cultures and different periods in history.

The Worthless Cunt Archetype is similar. A single type of submissive or slave represented by many outward forms, yet defined by a single truth: They are not truly submissive nor do they have the capacity to be so. 

With the above statements in mind, here are three forms of the Worthless Cunt Archetype that I have defined and experienced:

The Fantasy Seeker:

This form of the archetype has good intentions. The person is someone that usually has a very real interest in being a submissive or a slave. They love the idea of being submissive, giving themselves to another, and being owned. They crave the notion of total control and an existence with the single purpose of pleasing and bring pleasure to their Owner.

The Fantasy Seeker, however, never realizes their desires or expectations in the lifestyle. They are plagued by realities and limitations they either cannot move past or are unwilling to move past. The Fantasy Seeker never truly submits nor commits to their Owner. They are reduced to and defined by role play only. 

The Wannabe:

This form of the archetype sees themselves as a submissive or slave, but is solely focused on their own desires and pleasures. They rarely have a true desire to please their Owner and take issue with being corrected or told they are not truly submissive.

The Wannabe typically seems very submissive at first, but quickly shows their true temperament and desire for submission on their terms only. Topping from the bottom, short tempered, and quick to take issue with being corrected and controlled are all traits of this form. The Wannabe will see short periods of submission and brief ownerships until their own shortcomings demonstrate their true nature. 

The Kinkster:

This form of the archetype is similar to that of The Wannabe. This person is driven by their own pleasures and kinks. The difference between The Kinkster and The Wannabe, however, is that The Kinkster never sees them self as a submissive or slave. They exist only for themselves and their pleasure. They will do or say whatever is needed to get their fix.

The Kinkster is defined by a lust for pure physical pleasure with a true disdain for any level of control or commitment. They are exemplified by those that offer themselves freely for use and/or see themselves as Switches or the like in the lifestyle. The Kinkster can never be trusted much less be loyal or honest. They serve themselves and let their own desires and kinks control them.

Okay boys and girls. Here is a post, subject, and pet peeve that is very near and dear to me… dumb ass titles worn by dominants in 2nd Life. I mean really… Wearing a Dom or Domme title does not make a person a dominant. Anyone that thinks so, is just an idiot (reference the photo above from A Christmas Story…lol).

This post will serve to call attention to these titles, especially the ones that are over the top and just crazy stupid. It will be an evolving list that will grow over time. Try not to laugh too hard at these titles or the people that wear them!!

Titles (in no particular order):

• Master
• Mistress
• Cruel Master
• Master of His Girls
• Master of Masters
• Master of Slaves
• Dominant
• Sensible Dominant
• Yeah, I’m a Bad Ass
• Sadistic Master
• Sir
• Goddess
• Uberbitch
• House of V (anything)
• Slaver
• The Mastermind
• European Master
• Bitchtress
• SL-Domme
• M.R. Master
• Lesbian Mistress
• Master of Malu
• Master of Gor
• Master of Thorns
• Mistress in Training
• Predator
• Bitch Trainer
• Sweet (anything)
• Island Dom
• Former Mistress